Weather
Wasilla Minister Expresses Skepticism On Spousal RapesHamman says according to Biblical standards a wife's accusation would not be sufficient proof in and of itself, and he says scripture requires married couples to have sex.A Wasilla minister has sparked anger by criticizing women who withhold sex from their husbands and by suggesting that it can lead to spousal rape. The reaction to the minister’s comments has been so strong that the newspaper that published his guest column is now planning a community forum on sex crimes. Ron Hamman is the pastor of the Independent Baptist Church of Wasilla and has been a contributing columnist for the Mat-Su Valley Frontiersman on matters of faith. His views on rape within marriage are generating a storm of controversy on the Internet. Hamman's latest column, "What the Bible says about a modern controversy," was published in the Frontiersman Monday. In it he says there have been allegations of widespread spousal rape in Alaska, even though he says he has never heard a woman accuse her husband of forcing himself on her. Hamman says according to Biblical standards a wife's accusation would not be sufficient proof in and of itself, and he says scripture requires married couples to have sex. "Thus, if these allegations of spousal rape are due to the wife withholding herself in an attempt to control or punish her husband, she is out of line with God." The comments section on the Frontiersman website showed uniform condemnation of the column, and a writer at another website wrote an editorial in response, seemingly as outraged at the newspaper's decision to publish it as at Hamman for having written it. At the organization Standing Together Against Rape, or STAR, lead advocate Erin Patterson says law enforcement and the judiciary take spousal rape very seriously. "We're satisfied that the Special Victims Unit looks at these cases open-mindedly, just like other cases that come in. We know that the statutes don't discriminate based on marital status. There's nothing in our statutes that say if you're married, then it's ok." Hamman also faces pushback from other pastors. Dan Jarrell, a pastor at ChangePoint in Anchorage, emailed CBS 11: “Christian husbands serve their wives in love and are never forceful with them. Christian wives trust their husbands to treat them with honor and respect. When these biblical principles are ignored or neglected the results are always horrible and sometimes criminal." Patterson says Hamman has made star's job tougher. "Knowing that this information, this misinformation is out there is heartbreaking for us because we're working hard with our other agencies in town to promote accurate information on the rights of victims to report sexual violence regardless of their marital status." Hamman has started a conversation -- one that is growing in intensity. The frontiersman editor, Heather Resz, e-mailed CBS 11 saying that the reaction to the column has led to planning for a public summit on sex crimes. She and Publisher Kari Sleight declined to comment on the decision to publish Hamman's latest column. CBS 11 reached Hamman by email, but he declined to be interviewed, as well. In Anchorage, District Attorney Adrienne Bachman said spousal rape is neither rare nor frequent, with at least a few cases prosecuted here every year. Bachman emphasized that using force to overcome resistance to sexual overtures is criminal in any context. Three other anchorage pastors who were contacted declined to be named but expressed grave concern about Hamman's views.
|
This content requires the latest Adobe Flash Player and a browser with JavaScript enabled.
Click here for a free download of the latest Adobe Flash Player.
|
You have indicated this comment should be removed.
The comment has been submitted for review. Thank you .
Tom Rainey said on Thursday, Jul 21 at 8:09 PM
I also commented on Mr Hamman's piece. What was almost equally offensive were his matter of fact statements that anyone who thought different were wrong and "lost." A purported man of God comdemned many individuals and the country as lost. I said it to him and I say it now in all seriousness, it is people like Mr. Hamman that fly passenger planes into office buildings and send children to shopping malls with bombs strapped to them.
71106987Kenneth said on Friday, Jul 22 at 5:42 AM
no means no!
71120124Rachel's said on Friday, Jul 22 at 6:52 PM
Ask Ron if the Halocaust happened for real too. Is he skeptical of all the autrocities done by the Spanish Inquisition too? Maybe he thinks the Crusaders we all holy men/soldiers too? The problem is if he actually asked Jesus, the only unadulterated Word of God, Ron would get the truth and none of this dispute would be needed. But he'd rather spend his time defending his idea of how he's some wanna-be prophet. If he was an actual Pastor, listening to the people sent to him, he'd have heard the truth quite a while ago. God only knows how many women he did NOT help.
71158294False Prophets said on Friday, Jul 22 at 8:38 PM
Some of these churches are leading people to give up their most precious gift. The right to think for themselves. Dont be a puppet in a fools play. Let the church be in your home, not your home be in the church.
71161991June said on Saturday, Jul 23 at 12:13 PM
Start seriously praying for his wife, because "a willing victim" of such men "is a virtual puppet." God have mercy on her. God have mercy. And deliver her to the Glory of His Name.
71184189Samuel's said on Saturday, Jul 23 at 3:13 PM
What started all this was Ron Hamman's article of July 11, 2011 in the Frontiersman, not the apology nor Ron's defense of the fallout from his article in the Frontiersman of 7/11/2011. In it, he stands up for how horrible that rape of Lara Logan was in Egypt and that such things do not happen in Christianity/Churches. Those Egyptian men did what they did because of the same kind of sexist beliefs about women. The difference being that the Egyptian men belief any single woman walking around in a crowd is "asking for it" and Ron beliefs that once a woman marries whatever her husband decides to do to her she is likewise asking for. The two kinds of men are the same!
71188393Mary said on Saturday, Jul 23 at 9:24 PM
Why is it these kind of men understand if it's their daughter whose been raped by some stranger that she'd not want to ever have sex with that rapist again, but if the wifes raped by her husband she should be delighted to jump right back to it. Any idiot knows that rape victims don't feel like it with anyone for quite a while. No wonder a wife would be reluctant to put out for a husband who rapes her. It's amazing any can forgive men like that. Even those that repent immedicately, truly repent, can't expect everything to just go back to the romance they once had. In fact, it may never happen but for a miracle from God. That's just as true for the Christian as it is for the non-Christian victim.
71198698Eph. 5:23-32 said on Sunday, Jul 24 at 8:36 AM
For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of his body, the church; he gave his life to be her Savior. As the church submits to Christ, so you wives must submit to your husbands in everything. And you husbands must love your wives with the same love Christ showed the church. He gave up his life for her to make her holy and clean, washed by baptism and God's word. He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man is actually loving himself when he loves his wife. No one hates his own body but lovingly cares for it, just as Christ cares for his body, which is the church. And we are his body.
712131111 Corinthians 7:1-40 ESV said on Sunday, Jul 24 at 10:12 AM
I don't believe he meant that it was ok to rape but was trying to convey the following Bible passage. 1 Corinthians 7:1-40 ESV Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...
71216348Jackson's said on Monday, Jul 25 at 8:10 AM
Here we go again. Men have sexual needs? Unmarried teens don't have sexual needs, they should keep celibate until marriage. Widows and widowers don't "need" sex anymore because their partners died? How's that word for the definition of a need, by the way? It doesn't. Pastors have been using the need word to excuse spousal rape for all long as their have been men, married and otherwise. Jesus was fully human (and fully God) according to all these Protestants and Christians of every kind. Saint Paul was human (only) but they didn't "need" sex? Nope, it's cherry picking Scripture to do what one wants to do. And in these cases it to rape.
71251182Vicky Perez said on Tuesday, Jul 26 at 7:14 PM
Rape is Rape, you should of had your ass raped,mr. bible beater
71341344Add a comment
Most Popular